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Muddy People

A Muslim Coming of Age

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"By turns heartfelt, bitingly funny, and emotionally devastating, Muddy People is not your average coming-of-age tale. I loved this memoir of a young Egyptian-Australian girl growing up Muslim. It's a clear-eyed, fierce debut; every word rings true."—Nadine Jolie Courtney, author of All-American Muslim Girl

A quick, clever debut that is "like the best kind of cake: warm, sweet, a bit nutty—and made with so much love."—Alice Pung, author of Unpolished Gem

Sara is growing up in a family with a lot of rules. Her mother tells her she's not allowed to wear a bikini, her father tells her she's not allowed to drink alcohol, and her grandmother tells her to never trust a man with her money.

After leaving Egypt when Sara was only six years old, her family slowly learns how to navigate the social dynamics of their new home. Sara feels out of place in her new school. Her father refuses to buy his coworkers a ginger beer, thinking it contains alcohol. Her mother refuses to wear a hijab, even if it would help them connect with other local Muslims. And Sara learns what it feels like to have a crush on a boy, that some classmates are better friends than others, and that her parents are loving, but flawed people who don't always know what's best for her, despite being her strongest defenders.

For readers of Patricia Lockwood's Priestdaddy and Michelle Zauner's Crying in H Mart, this heartwarming book about family and identity introduces a compelling new voice, with a coming-of-age story that will speak to everyone who's ever struggled to figure out where they belong.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      April 11, 2022
      In this sparkling debut, El Sayed delivers a heartfelt tribute to her family via the story of her experience living as an immigrant in Australia. When the political turmoil of 9/11 forced the author’s Muslim family to relocate from Alexandria, Egypt, to the suburbs of Brisbane in 2001, six-year-old El Sayed was met with a trove of cultural novelties—among them, the “square bread” that perfectly fit into toasters, and “playing God” via The Sims. But, as she reveals, there was also the strain of navigating a society at odds with her Islamic identity, one that was marked by casual racist cruelties from white classmates and her parents’ struggle to find work in their professional fields (“In Egypt, Baba was an engineer and an architect. In Australia, he was nothing”). While much of the book contends with El Sayed’s constant search for belonging, she resists giving in to the grave stories “about Islamophobia the name-calling, the ostracising, the bullying.” What’s on offer instead is a vivid mosaic of the people who buoyed her through adulthood, from her endearing yet imperfect parents, “both good people,” she writes, “ were just not good together,” to her hilarious, spitfire Nana. Readers will be eager to see what El Sayed does next.

    • Books+Publishing

      June 2, 2021
      With elegant lyricism, compelling urgency and a dark sense of humour, Muddy People by Sara El Sayed is an impressive debut memoir from the young Egyptian–Australian writer. El Sayed’s work fleshes out the vulnerable, private space between the well-accepted narrative of respectable, hard-working migrants living in sunny Queensland (‘good Muslims’) and the frayed, unspooling horrors of her parents’ separation and divorce. Her father (baba), in a classic example of the dark Egyptian humour that underlies the work, says, ‘I want you to know that if your mother and I divorce, it is your fault.’ El Sayed excels in intermingling the domestic with the public, in one scene utilising the metaphor of a rotting custard apple, which her father believes can fight cancer cells. The discussion then subtly and ingeniously gives way to criticism of Egypt’s political corruption. ‘You can’t believe everything you read on the internet,’ El Sayed says to him. ‘A lot of that is fake.’ The descriptions of her baba’s slow decline to cancer are finely told. His sharp wit and a certain brusque irritability are rendered with heartbreaking humanity and compassion. For El Sayed, well-worn social etiquette, such as receiving eligible suitors and paying deference to her grandmother’s wonderful cooking, all give way under the weight of absurd religious tradition and the seething rage around the many small injustices faced by an Egyptian daughter. In Muddy People, El Sayed’s coming to voice reflects her own journey of self-realisation, of understanding what it means to be a migrant millennial. Daniel Nour is an Egyptian–Australian journalist and writer.

    • Library Journal

      May 1, 2022

      El Sayed's debut memoir recounts growing up Muslim as a young Egyptian Australian girl. Her family, like many families, had a lot of rules, El Sayed writes--among them, "Rule 1: Don't touch alcohol"; "Rule 10: No fighting with your brother"; and "Rule 21: Never talk to strangers." El Sayed uses these rules to structure her memoir which pays homage to her parents, her family, and the challenges she encountered living by these edicts. It's an engaging read where she makes sense of her upbringing and gives voice to the experiences of many Muslim girls. She also reflects on a life that took her from Egypt, her homeland, to Australia--a very different place where she was consistently reminded that she and her family were the "other"; like any change, the transition was difficult for the young El Sayed, but she writes that the family rules were a helpful force for navigating the dynamics of a new country. VERDICT El Sayed's coming-of-age memoir about resiliency, family, and identity will delight readers as a study of making sense of a world where rules can often help along the way.--Susan E. Montgomery

      Copyright 2022 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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